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My Indulgence
This started off to be a different post. But I abandoned that for the time being because it needs more thought and communication, or maybe we need to just do it first and then that post can be written. I do know that I can write this post here and now. There are lots of words written about how a sub should care for her Dom but I don’t think… Read More »My Indulgence
The Big O
Lillith wrote a post about her orgasms. That got me thinking about my orgasms. So like, I think, most everyone else I prefer orgasms with my partner. Not that I don’t have them on my own. The current situation means that they are always on my own. That doesn’t mean that we don’t sext or have phone sex but that isn’t exactly the same. Now that I am with Lillith… Read More »The Big O
Toy with Her
[showhide type=”Content Warning]D/s, The appearance of non consensual use, objectification[/showhide] Since the last time we were together we have been making a lot of plans for the next time we are together. We have a list and not just because she loves lists. But so we can plan the best use of our time together. I have a plan that isn’t on the list, well, at least not yet. I… Read More »Toy with Her
A symbol of freedom
Much of life is full of symbols. Some are required for everyday life. They are a shorthand to communicate information without using words and are often meant to be understood no matter what language you speak. I would say from my point of view that the symbols on clothing fail miserably at this. We use these glyphs in many other parts of our lives as well. To represent aspects of… Read More »A symbol of freedom
Not an option
I have learned a lot over the last 18 months. Some of it bad, some of it good. All of it useful. Some of what I have I have learned has show me my terrible decisions and what I need to do to avoid repeating them. Some of it has to do with other people. The thing I am going to talk about here is something that I wasn’t sure… Read More »Not an option
Find out what it means to me
I have read a lot of posts about respect recently and many of them have rubbed me the wrong way and I haven’t been quite sure why until I thought about writing on the topic. There seem to be two main schools of thought. (Not exclusively two before some smartass makes a comment) A. That respect is something we should all have for each other right from the start. B.… Read More »Find out what it means to me
Something to talk about
Back in the 80’s and 90’s I did concert sound for many artists. Some I knew and some I had heard before and some I saw for the first time on the road. Bonnie Raitt I listened to her album Nick of Time many many times. I was really happy to find out that she would be playing at a festival I was working at in support of her new… Read More »Something to talk about
Success
I want her to succeed. Always. When set a task, when being punished, when making changes to make her life better. Why would I ever want anything else. I want her strong, sure and confident. And to me that also means successful. After all, I can spank her, use her and fuck her whenever I want. The point of tasks is to help her. Help her with her submission. Help… Read More »Success
Good Enough
I have always striven to be a good man. I have often failed. That doesn’t stop me from trying again and again in the hope that this time, I might finally get it right. How I define being a good man has changed over the many years of my live and has been influenced by both those I love and respect and those that I do not. Mostly what my… Read More »Good Enough
