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A Dom in Love

A Dom in Love

And I am sure there are many who will wonder “Already?” I know that it could be seen like that. Now in spite of the fact that I am very old I haven’t been in love many times, that being said I tend to fall hard and fast when it does happen. Like every other time it was something that I found while I wasn’t looking for it. My plan… Read More »A Dom in Love

Sense and Synchronicity

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And Serendipity.. Two of the three things in the title I have had in my life in abundance, the one missing? Well that would be sense. Synchronicity and serendipity seem to occur to me all of the time. Most of my careers and relationships have been a direct result of a confluence of these two things. And yet again after a pretty horrific year it has happened once again. Late… Read More »Sense and Synchronicity

Image of a perfect storm

A Perfect Storm

So this post isn’t about one thing but rather two. The first is that Lillith and I have met in person. It was brilliant in ways that I am not sure I can explain just yet. It was the culmination of a perfect storm of events. I had recently finished destroying my last relationship and seriously damaging my other. While I am completely to blame for all of this, but… Read More »A Perfect Storm

Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow

Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow

Tomorrow is the day that we meet. It seems like it was a long time coming and yet at the same time it seems like it was only moments ago you sent me a DM and we started talking. Now, as I write this there are thirteen hours left until we meet in person. We have shared many things about ourselves and not just fun, sexy stuff. But our views… Read More »Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow

That Little Click

There is a moment coming soon. Something unexpected but very desired. A moment when things will come together in a single place and time. Where questions that have been asked will be answered, and the truth of things will be made clear. Or not. I know what I believe will happen, that the connection that up to now only exists at a distance will become a connection made more intense… Read More »That Little Click

Daddy Loves You for Open Secret

open secret

I suppose that this doesn’t really qualify as a secret, but I am going to say that maybe not everyone knows this so it is going to count. I learned that I had a kink that I was unaware of. In retrospect I suppose I should have realized it sooner. I have known for a while that I was a Dom, but what came as a surprise is that I… Read More »open secret

Maps for Great Explorations

Great Explorations

I am sure that many of you are aware there have been some profound changes in my life and relationships. That being said I am greatly enjoying getting to know new people and learning about new possibilities. Not all of the things I have learned from the changes have been good. But I suppose that is just how change is and you have to take the good with the bad… Read More »Great Explorations

Sparks image for Connection

connect the dots

When I was thinking about what to write today I was having trouble finding a topic that resonated with me that didn’t require research or inordinate amount of time thinking my way through it. When I suddenly was inspired. A lot of what I have been writing about comes down to one thing. Connection. The thing that I am looking for boiled down to one word. The thing that I… Read More »connect the dots

Another point of view

Hello. Please refer to your blog, the section of your recent post entitled “Love.” That’s what I’m writing to you about. Some time ago I went through the breakup of a long-term relationship and although my situation had differences, I faced, and am still facing, many of the life/love themes that you are struggling with now. It’s a long and winding road to get somewhere – anywhere – from where… Read More »Another point of view