Michael

I was @domsigns on Twitter and for a brief time I was @uncertainsigns and that account still exists because I don’t want to forget all the history and connections that account brought me.

Laundry

Airing My Dirty Laundry

Even when you really don’t go anywhere and spend all your time working from home, eventually you have to do the laundry. I know that Lillith and Molly despair at my laundry hanging skills.

The Shape of Love

The Shape of Love

Love takes many forms, some are more unconventional than others. Some have become more conventional over my lifetime. When I was young the open show of love between same sex couple was unthinkable for most people. The same is true of interracial relationships. Not that either of these examples still don’t have a long way to go. For all of its many flaws 50 Shades of Grey brought BDSM and… Read More »The Shape of Love

My Indulgence

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This started off to be a different post. But I abandoned that for the time being because it needs more thought and communication, or maybe we need to just do it first and then that post can be written. I do know that I can write this post here and now. There are lots of words written about how a sub should care for her Dom but I don’t think… Read More »My Indulgence

Orgasm

The Big O

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Lillith wrote a post about her orgasms. That got me thinking about my orgasms. So like, I think, most everyone else I prefer orgasms with my partner. Not that I don’t have them on my own. The current situation means that they are always on my own. That doesn’t mean that we don’t sext or have phone sex but that isn’t exactly the same. Now that I am with Lillith… Read More »The Big O

Elust 131

Elust 131

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The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #132? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! Are ‘introvert Dommes’ a thing? Can I have anal… Read More »Elust 131

The times they are a changing

The Times They are a Changing

I want to start by stating clearly that I am a cis, het, white, old male. I do not lay claim to pride, I only do my best to support those that need it. We live in interesting and difficult times. Everything has changed. Let’s face it the big obvious place where we can point to where it all went wrong, The end of the beginning and the beginning of… Read More »The Times They are a Changing

Closing Time

Closing Time

“There will come a time when you believe everything is finished; that will be the beginning.” – Louis L’Amour I have seen this quote before and it tickled my brain because I thought it reminded me of something and eventually I figured it out. It is the lyrics from “Closing Time by Semisonic” that sparked that connection in my brain. Closing timeEvery new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.… Read More »Closing Time

Toy with Her

Toy with Her

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Since the last time we were together we have been making a lot of plans for the next time we are together. We have a list and not just because she loves lists. But so we can plan the best use of our time together. I have a plan that isn’t on the list, well, at least not yet. I want to play a game, with her. I want to… Read More »Toy with Her

A symbol of freedom

A symbol of freedom

Much of life is full of symbols. Some are required for everyday life. They are a shorthand to communicate information without using words and are often meant to be understood no matter what language you speak. I would say from my point of view that the symbols on clothing fail miserably at this. We use these glyphs in many other parts of our lives as well. To represent aspects of… Read More »A symbol of freedom

cut-throat

cut-throat

I mentioned on Twitter the other day that I was going to learn a new skill. I had a few people ask me what I was going to be learning. I didn’t share that information, but I will now. Recently I wrote a post for Kink of the Week – Grooming called A Close Shave where I talked about shaving Lillith and I bemoaned the lack of a cut-throat razor… Read More »cut-throat