Michael

I was @domsigns on Twitter and for a brief time I was @uncertainsigns and that account still exists because I don’t want to forget all the history and connections that account brought me.

Please

Hold Please

A Dom doesn’t need to ever use the wordPLEASE This is the prompt for the current No True Way. Of course a dom doesn’t need to say please, or thank you, or you’re welcome. A dom doesn’t need to be polite to anyone ever, and certainly not to their sub. A dom is the master of all he surveys. The whole world is theirs to command, to take and use… Read More »Hold Please

Out of Focus

Out of Focus

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For No True Way I have written many posts. They seems to be a variation of the same thing. Me repudiating the quote. I always give it a caveat. That it is only my point of view and that it may well be different for others. Stop “trying” to be a good sub…because that’s focusing on “you”…Focus on Him…His needs, His wants, His desires…And everything will fall into place So… Read More »Out of Focus

A Symbiosis of Love

A Symbiosis of Love

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And again there are no words. Words exist that can, used by a poet, achieve a dim monochrome of the body’s love, but beyond that they fail clumsily. My love flowed out to her, hers back to me. Mine stroked and soothed. Hers caressed. The distance – and the difference – between us dwindled and vanished. We could meet, mingle, and blend. Neither one of us existed any more; for… Read More »A Symbiosis of Love

all that and a bag of chips.

All That and A Bag Of Chips

She thinks I’m crazy. She might be right but I hope it is a good kind of crazy. She was hoping for so chips tonight and it didn’t happen. I offered to get her some and sent her a link that listed the odd sorts of flavors you can get in the UK. I got a message back listing the ones she would like. I told her that I would… Read More »All That and A Bag Of Chips

The Abrogation of Self

The Abrogation of Self

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The above picture represents how many dominants see themselves. As lord of the jungle. proud master of all they survey they reign supreme over the adoring subbies they command. Those subbies need nothing more than the knowledge that they are content to be nothing more than willing and grateful servants knowing this all they need and all they will ever need. Nothing more than that they make their dom happy.… Read More »The Abrogation of Self

The Heat Between Her Legs

The Heat Between Her Legs

She tested the paddle against the palm of her hand. She had chosen it herself, curious if the holes in the smooth wood would leave the marks she craved so much. She had been told to wait with the paddle dressed in a way to please him. The feel of the paddle against her skin made her squirm. She loved and hated it at the same time. The way she… Read More »The Heat Between Her Legs

A good sub

A Good Sub

I have a dilemma. I don’t quite know how to find a solution to it either. You see, the wonderful and amazing woman in my life, my precious partner and submissive. Well, she doesn’t think she is a good sub. Hard to believe I know, but there it is. I asked her point blank. Are you a good sub? Her: Fine Me: Are you a good sub? Her: Not too… Read More »A Good Sub

Jenga

The Jenga of D/S

Real D/s dynamics are 24/7 When I write these posts I feel like I might be saying the same thing over and over again. But I am going to try it in a different way. D/S is like Jenga. You start with what looks like a fully constructed structure and you change it. You take out a block and put it somewhere else to make it change. You do it… Read More »The Jenga of D/S

The Experiment

The Experiment

Today Lillith and I are starting something new. Something that I am calling The Experiment. I am not going to spell it all out for you dear reader but I will give you some highlights. We have created some shared online documents that we will use to chart and modify our explorations in dominance and submission. They will be a way for us to communicate our desires and needs for… Read More »The Experiment

Monoromanticamouristexpialidocious

Monoromanticamouristexpialidocious

I have had sex with more people than I can count. I have been in love with a smaller number of people that I can count. I have been in a (sort of) monogamous relationship. I have been in a polyamorous relationship. I have been thinking about love a lot recently. There are many versions of love. The love you have for family, for friends, for a good sandwich and… Read More »Monoromanticamouristexpialidocious