A new place where I will write whatever nonsense I need to get out of my head. The good, the bad and the ugly. I don’t know what is yet to come for me and at times I am frightened as to what it all mean. But for better or for worse this is the place where it is likely to all come spilling out. Much like the boy in… Read More »A New beginning
As a Dom, you will need suits, shirts, ties, smart shoes. Or sexy clothes, whips, chains, high heels. These things aren’t cheap. Buy yourself gifts and something pretty using your sub’s resources. After all, your sub will be happy since they are the ones that made it possible. And enjoying the view is more than enough of a reward for them. No True Way I suppose there might be a… Read More »Clothes Make The Dom
I don’t often participate in Sinful Sunday. I rarely take photographs of myself. I rarely let others take photographs of me. I just don’t like how I look. I know that I am supposed too, but it is a skill I am particularly bad at. Even if I am good at telling others how good they look. Molly asked if I wanted her to take a picture for Sinful Sunday… Read More »Self Image, Photography and Me.
By taking the role of a true submissive, you decide to allow your dom to make all the decisions. So, no — you shouldn’t have an opinion, suggestion, idea, or anything. NTW There are few things in this world better than an empty canvass for a dom. A Tabula Rasa, an empty book that can be written just to please you. To mold and form to meet your every need… Read More »Totally Clueless
Hygiene and grooming are important – your Dom wants you clean and pretty No True Way Hygiene is important. for everyone, not just the sub. While I do like her to be clean, because it is so much fun to make her dirty, but that has nothing to do with pretty. Dirty can be pretty and beautiful and sexy in a way that clean can never be. Like all absolutisms… Read More »Such A Dirty Girl
Submission isn’t about what you want to do. No True Way There is a lot to be said about want and need and what should be important to a submissive or a dom. The thing I believe is that I, as a dom, need to care what my submissive wants and needs. And just as importantly my sub needs to care what I want and need. I have said it… Read More »What You Need
There were plans that were interrupted by life. That happens, even when we don’t want it to, but that is just how the cookie crumbles sometimes. So this was not supposed to be a post, this was to be a lived lesson for the both of us. I, was going to be strict. She likes it when I am strict. When I give her the look that says “Watch your… Read More »Strictly Come Domming
We are responsible for: – keeping our home clean – cooking meals – running errands – remembering all of our dominants likes and dislikes – anticipating their needs – doing every task they give us without being reminded – and a million other things No True Way An idea isn’t responsible for the people who believe in it. ~ Don Marquis People have many ideas, some good, some bad, but… Read More »An Idea Isn’t Responsible For The People Who Believe In It.