One of the things on the list for our last visit was a day of service. This was something new for both of us, well certainly for me at least, I will need to check with Lillith to be sure.
As we explore our D/s we are trying different facets on for size to see what fits us. Assuming that we are on the same page, even for things we have both done before isn’t a good idea. I have learned from the past and I know now not to take those things for granted.
One of the questions that Lillith asked me before was essentially what are the terms of service? In other words what was I expecting and I asked her what would she do for me of her own free will. After all the point was for her to serve me in a way that she thought would show that she knew me and what I might want. We had an exchange of a few more messages mostly with the two of us being silly and that was the end of it.
Until we were together. I made clear that what I was looking for wasn’t that I would give her a list of thing to do and she could check them off. (That would be a very different thing) I wanted her to try and anticipate my desires as best she could without prompting.
I could list all of the things that she did on her day of service but honestly I don’t think that would do that day justice. Alternatively I could try to write a narrative of the day but that would be a novel. So instead I will say this.
It was amazing, I felt so loved and cared for and known that it exceeded anything I could have expect this day to be. The thought that she put into every single thing showed that she really has been paying attention. She made me feel special and important and it was a balm to my soul.
Now I just need to make sure that she always feels just how she made me feel.
She exceeded her terms of service and I am a lucky man, a lucky Dom and I have a brilliant woman.
This is lovely ❤️
So lovely 🙂 The anticipation of needs and desires is such a powerful tool in the toolkit of a submissive – and a Dom, frankly. Nothing makes a person feel more seen and understood than not having to ask or suggest. So happy you tow had that time together and learned so much.