15 minutes a day huh? That seems far too little. Not for her to “meditate” on her submission, but for me to meditate on my dominance. Maybe I am an overthinker. But if I don’t think about how I can be a better dom for at least an hour a day minimum it is because I am astonishingly busy, or sleeping. I also spend just as much time thinking about… Read More »15 Minutes Is But A Fraction
I was @domsigns on Twitter and for a brief time I was @uncertainsigns and that account still exists because I don’t want to forget all the history and connections that account brought me.
Lillith recently wrote a post for KotW I for Ice-Cream on food control. In it she says “I knew it was something Michael was into” and that isn’t exactly correct. I mean I don’t get sexual pleasure from controlling what she eats, just like I don’t get turned on by making sure she drinks enough water everyday. I DO get pleasure from controlling her and making sure she takes care… Read More »Zen And The Art Of Gentle Dominance
Make a plan how to correct your mistake. Often it just means avoiding the thing that lured you to begin with. It could mean you end a friendship or activity, if things need to be drastic enough. No True Way D/s is a lot of things. It is teaching and learning and making mistakes. I don’t believe that goes in only one direction. I need to make mistakes and learn… Read More »The World Was Made For Beautiful Mistakes.
Our visits are always wonderful. Each visit is better than the last. This visit was no exception. Every item in this picture tells part of a story. I can’t wait until the next chapter. The detritus of this visit has become more than just what is left behind. It is a promise of more adventures. Michael
Submissives are often expected to possess or maintain a pleasant demeanor. No True Way My sub never frowns or is upset or cries. That is because a submissives purpose is to only show what I want to see. After all, if I wanted to deal with all of that nonsense, I would not have chosen a d/s relationship! My sub always appears happy with a joyous look on her face.… Read More »Real Submissives Don’t Have Emotions of Their Own
She has left, not forever, just for now. It was, as it always is, an amazing visit. Full of love and laughter and d/s and sex. And more. The more is a topic for another post. This post is about how I have felt since she left. LDR is always difficult, being apart for so long, local life getting in the way. It is extra hard after the high of… Read More »Departure Drop
Skating down in ShinjukuWhen I smelled love in the airRolling by the pagodaThe fragrance floats from somewhere Will my Suki find me in timeOr will her sushi spawnThe odor drives me out of my mindThe scent goes straight to my prawn Su-su-sushiMushi-mushiCherry blossom and riceSu-su-sushi she’s so nice ~ The Tubes
Submission is a gift No True Way All relationships are gifts. At least for me they are. And they are reciprocal gifts when done right. This isn’t just true in d/s but in all of life. What it comes down to for me is the time that someone else invests and the time I give in return. All relationships are about how you spend your time. Time is the most… Read More »Love the giver more than the gift.
Please be aware that this post is just my point of view and given my record is probably best ignored. Attention: Pay attention to detail, detail is always the key. In all things, the people who you are with should always know that they are important. You should know what they like, what they care about and you should expect the same in return. Paying attention and having attention paid… Read More »My Lessons in Love, Sex, And Romance