Submissives are often expected to possess or maintain a pleasant demeanor.
No True Way
My sub never frowns or is upset or cries. That is because a submissives purpose is to only show what I want to see. After all, if I wanted to deal with all of that nonsense, I would not have chosen a d/s relationship!
My sub always appears happy with a joyous look on her face. How could it be otherwise? All of her desires and needs are fulfilled in me. I suppose that while she was out doing the shopping or cooking dinner, it might be okay for her to take a few moments to reflect on how she could attend to me better and if that made her pout for a moment that might be alright. Just as long as she didn’t do it where I could see.
Or…
Maybe she, just like me, is a person and not a robot. She has moods, thoughts, and emotions, and I always want to know what they are. I want to see how she actually feels. I want her to always feel safe to show that.
A fantasy of an always willing, compliant, and pleasant sub can be fun. But gosh, who would have guessed? Fantasy isn’t real.
Lillith is not a fantasy; she is a wonderful reality, and that comes with all of the other messy parts of life.
The trick, for me, is to find the love and d/s in those messy moments because the majority of life is made up of those moments.
Otherwise, you might as well settle in for a while until they perfect A.I. submissives. Because real submissives do have emotions of their own. And if you don’t want to see them, they will find a dom who does.
Michael
