MALEDOM IS NOT A FETISH While the so called “femdom” is just a sick roleplaying fetish for weak manginas and penis-envious feminists, but Maledom is just the natural and healthy law of human nature, which determines that Male is the Superior sex. Ahh, the plight of the White, Cis, Male, Dom. So desperate for relevance, so fragile of ego, so full of misogyny that all he can do is lash… Read More »The Tears of a Clown
Love and d/s
Kneeling A profound act of devotion The beginning of submission The surest way to get my attention We see the pictures everywhere don’t we? Almost always in black and white. He is wearing a suit and of course he has no head. She is naked except for maybe a collar and a leash and on her knees. It is the stereotypical image of d/s and there is nothing wrong with… Read More »Take a Knee
As a submissive, you’re in control. I might start to sound like a broken record. We agree on so many things that she recently said “Btw, I’d like to find a d/s topic we disagree on.” Sadly this is not that occasion. In her post Out of Control Lillith has once again said the things that I feel too. But in case it needs saying again, here are my thoughts.… Read More »Who’s the Boss?
A submissive shouldn’t question a Dominant’s orders. It’s not a submissive’s position to know what a dominant’s reasons are. A submissive shouldn’t question a Dominant’s orders. They should just do it and trust the dominant with that decision. Once upon a time I had young children and I taught them to question everything. That is a skill that all people need in life, not just in d/s, but especially in… Read More »Beyond Question
Dominants tend to be the “Alpha Male”, and that is why “Dom” is always spelled with a capital, while “sub” is always lowercase. People love rules. They love to impose rules on everything. That isn’t always a bad thing because without rules humans tend to make things go very wrong. But like so many thing people get pedantic and want there to be rules when none are really needed and… Read More »One Title to Rule Them All
I will, of course, start with the obvious things. I don’t play with anyone without a safe word. Those are my rules, you can have different rules and someone else to play with. No, a safeword won’t keep you safe from someone who won’t respect your limits. Just like seatbelts won’t keep you safe from a drunk driver, but you still wear them. It is just safer. And not just… Read More »To Be on the Safe Side
Much of life is full of symbols. Some are required for everyday life. They are a shorthand to communicate information without using words and are often meant to be understood no matter what language you speak. I would say from my point of view that the symbols on clothing fail miserably at this. We use these glyphs in many other parts of our lives as well. To represent aspects of… Read More »A symbol of freedom