I don’t usually wait this long to write these posts. I did this time because I knew that Lillith and I would be together again. I wanted to write it while we were together because, well, while I do provide care while we are apart it isn’t quite the same. I have never claimed to be an expert at anything. I have always seen myself as a jack of all… Read More »Beyond Care
Why do people need to promote they way they love as superior to the way other people love? That d/s is better than non kink, that polyamory is better than monogamy? Love is what matters, not the style you love. What matters is that you love fiercely and with commitment. That you love your partner(s) in a way that makes you, and them, happy. If you require your love to… Read More »Feed The Fire of Love
My very first sexual relationship was an age gap relationship. But not in the way that most of you think. I was the young one. This relationship would be illegal today but I think it served me well as an introduction to sex. I have had five serious romantic entanglements since the tender age of thirteen. Three with age gaps and two without. So while many people think that I… Read More »The Balance of Power
I love going down on a woman/man, but I’d never go down on my sub People are ridiculous more often than not. They have strange notions and ideas and often confuse very different things. This is a prime example of that. While d/s does include sex it does not encompass the entirety of sex. What I mean is that if I decide that my sub is going to flog me… Read More »Southbound And Down
The difference between a submissive and slave are limits.Slaves don’t have limits. Unlike all the other No True Way posts where I always say that YMMV and that YKINMYBYKIOK I won’t be doing that with this prompt. Here is my take. There are always limits, always. There should be limits or what we call d/s is really just dangerous abuse. Anyone who wants someone that they can do anything they… Read More »Take It To The Limit
Every submissive should know their positions, so they can please their Master when needed. Here in Castle Signs I make sure every sub that I consider owning goes through an intensive training course to be sure that they will always please me. The most important of the many training session is the position training. That they learn to flawlessly execution the very kinky d/s positions pictured above. I have hired… Read More »Assume the Position
A switch is not a real dom/sub No one is just one thing. I mean, some people are, but I don’t think that is very healthy. We all live on a spectrum. Our sexuality, our spirituality, our politics and our gender. We are a sum of all that we are. My being dom doesn’t represent all that I am and neither does any of the many parts that make me… Read More »Switch Hitter
A good girl is always available. Why of course, why wouldn’t she be? She is a good girl after all. Always ready to serve and please whenever the whim should take me. Waiting by the doors on her knees, naked, mouth open just in case I need to use her right then and there. Dinner waiting and ready. The house clean and spotless. Why I never have to guve a… Read More »What Makes Her A Good Girl
Submission appeals to responsible, hard working and independent women, because it takes them to a world free from those pressures. Why does it only have to be one way? Of course the statement above can be true. For. Some. People. I know people are more comfortable when then can label and categorize but why do we always need to do that? Trying to understand why we are the way we… Read More »Don’t Ask Why
Time for another #NTW post, and as usual it is a fun one: A submissive knows that they should learn to control their tongue when annoyed with their dominant. Communication eh? But only when it is words the dom wants to hear. Why should the dom concern themselves about how their sub is feeling, am I right? Why should the dom even be aware of how their sub is feeling.… Read More »A Submissive Knows
