As a Dom, you will need suits, shirts, ties, smart shoes. Or sexy clothes, whips, chains, high heels. These things aren’t cheap. Buy yourself gifts and something pretty using your sub’s resources. After all, your sub will be happy since they are the ones that made it possible. And enjoying the view is more than enough of a reward for them. No True Way I suppose there might be a… Read More »Clothes Make The Dom
By taking the role of a true submissive, you decide to allow your dom to make all the decisions. So, no — you shouldn’t have an opinion, suggestion, idea, or anything. NTW There are few things in this world better than an empty canvass for a dom. A Tabula Rasa, an empty book that can be written just to please you. To mold and form to meet your every need… Read More »Totally Clueless
Hygiene and grooming are important – your Dom wants you clean and pretty No True Way Hygiene is important. for everyone, not just the sub. While I do like her to be clean, because it is so much fun to make her dirty, but that has nothing to do with pretty. Dirty can be pretty and beautiful and sexy in a way that clean can never be. Like all absolutisms… Read More »Such A Dirty Girl
Submission isn’t about what you want to do. No True Way There is a lot to be said about want and need and what should be important to a submissive or a dom. The thing I believe is that I, as a dom, need to care what my submissive wants and needs. And just as importantly my sub needs to care what I want and need. I have said it… Read More »What You Need
We are responsible for: – keeping our home clean – cooking meals – running errands – remembering all of our dominants likes and dislikes – anticipating their needs – doing every task they give us without being reminded – and a million other things No True Way An idea isn’t responsible for the people who believe in it. ~ Don Marquis People have many ideas, some good, some bad, but… Read More »An Idea Isn’t Responsible For The People Who Believe In It.
15 minutes a day huh? That seems far too little. Not for her to “meditate” on her submission, but for me to meditate on my dominance. Maybe I am an overthinker. But if I don’t think about how I can be a better dom for at least an hour a day minimum it is because I am astonishingly busy, or sleeping. I also spend just as much time thinking about… Read More »15 Minutes Is But A Fraction
Make a plan how to correct your mistake. Often it just means avoiding the thing that lured you to begin with. It could mean you end a friendship or activity, if things need to be drastic enough. No True Way D/s is a lot of things. It is teaching and learning and making mistakes. I don’t believe that goes in only one direction. I need to make mistakes and learn… Read More »The World Was Made For Beautiful Mistakes.
Submissives are often expected to possess or maintain a pleasant demeanor. No True Way My sub never frowns or is upset or cries. That is because a submissives purpose is to only show what I want to see. After all, if I wanted to deal with all of that nonsense, I would not have chosen a d/s relationship! My sub always appears happy with a joyous look on her face.… Read More »Real Submissives Don’t Have Emotions of Their Own
Submission is a gift No True Way All relationships are gifts. At least for me they are. And they are reciprocal gifts when done right. This isn’t just true in d/s but in all of life. What it comes down to for me is the time that someone else invests and the time I give in return. All relationships are about how you spend your time. Time is the most… Read More »Love the giver more than the gift.
A submissive is a reflection of their dominant. No True Way She is not a reflection of me. I am not a reflection of her. The implication of the prompt is that her submission is only a mirror held up to my dominance. That if she doesn’t measure up then that is down to my failure to be a good dom. She is a brilliant submissive, for me. We decide… Read More »MIrror, Mirror, On The Wall
