There were plans that were interrupted by life. That happens, even when we don’t want it to, but that is just how the cookie crumbles sometimes. So this was not supposed to be a post, this was to be a lived lesson for the both of us. I, was going to be strict. She likes it when I am strict. When I give her the look that says “Watch your… Read More »Strictly Come Domming
She has left, not forever, just for now. It was, as it always is, an amazing visit. Full of love and laughter and d/s and sex. And more. The more is a topic for another post. This post is about how I have felt since she left. LDR is always difficult, being apart for so long, local life getting in the way. It is extra hard after the high of… Read More »Departure Drop
I am going to diverge from the list of questions for this prompt because that is just who I am. My list is going to be 5 things I have learned being kinky. Now as always these observations are from my admittedly narrow perspective. 1. Being kinky is not going to fix your life nor that of your partner. It doesn’t make anything easier, if anything it makes life more… Read More »I have limited these points to five
So Lillith has been doing the 30 days of D/s for prompts for the The Blog Days of Summer and since we are together now we get to discuss what she is writing before, during and after she writes it. Today we were talking about negotiation. Our d/s contains a great deal of discussion and negotiation about, well, everything. Sometimes it is about what we mean because of our different… Read More »An Agreement In Principle
The course of true love never did run smooth William Shakespeare In life, love and d/s there are always hiccups. Not every thing can go to plan every single time. In other words, if you think you know what is going on , that is the moment right before you screw it up. Let me give some context before we get to the meat of the matter. Lillith has been… Read More »Taking Control
Hi my little slut. Welcome to another Mean Day™. As I always I try to be a creative as I can in giving you your instructions for Mean Day™ and I decided my blog was a way to share that I haven’t used yet. So here are the rules. All usual rules apply. Asking permission to pee. Food rules. Cleaning rule. Yoga rule and so on. You should be sure… Read More »Mean Day™ 11/5/21
A Dom doesn’t need to ever use the wordPLEASE This is the prompt for the current No True Way. Of course a dom doesn’t need to say please, or thank you, or you’re welcome. A dom doesn’t need to be polite to anyone ever, and certainly not to their sub. A dom is the master of all he surveys. The whole world is theirs to command, to take and use… Read More »Hold Please
For No True Way I have written many posts. They seems to be a variation of the same thing. Me repudiating the quote. I always give it a caveat. That it is only my point of view and that it may well be different for others. Stop “trying” to be a good sub…because that’s focusing on “you”…Focus on Him…His needs, His wants, His desires…And everything will fall into place So… Read More »Out of Focus
And again there are no words. Words exist that can, used by a poet, achieve a dim monochrome of the body’s love, but beyond that they fail clumsily. My love flowed out to her, hers back to me. Mine stroked and soothed. Hers caressed. The distance – and the difference – between us dwindled and vanished. We could meet, mingle, and blend. Neither one of us existed any more; for… Read More »A Symbiosis of Love
She thinks I’m crazy. She might be right but I hope it is a good kind of crazy. She was hoping for so chips tonight and it didn’t happen. I offered to get her some and sent her a link that listed the odd sorts of flavors you can get in the UK. I got a message back listing the ones she would like. I told her that I would… Read More »All That and A Bag Of Chips
