An Agreement In Principle

So Lillith has been doing the 30 days of D/s for prompts for the The Blog Days of Summer and since we are together now we get to discuss what she is writing before, during and after she writes it. Today we were talking about negotiation. Our d/s contains a great deal of discussion and… Continue reading An Agreement In Principle

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Taking Control

The course of true love never did run smooth William Shakespeare In life, love and d/s there are always hiccups. Not every thing can go to plan every single time. In other words, if you think you know what is going on , that is the moment right before you screw it up. Let me… Continue reading Taking Control

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Mean Day™ 11/5/21

Hi my little slut. Welcome to another Mean Day™. As I always I try to be a creative as I can in giving you your instructions for Mean Day™ and I decided my blog was a way to share that I haven’t used yet. So here are the rules. All usual rules apply. Asking permission… Continue reading Mean Day™ 11/5/21

Hold Please

A Dom doesn’t need to ever use the wordPLEASE This is the prompt for the current No True Way. Of course a dom doesn’t need to say please, or thank you, or you’re welcome. A dom doesn’t need to be polite to anyone ever, and certainly not to their sub. A dom is the master… Continue reading Hold Please

Out of Focus

For No True Way I have written many posts. They seems to be a variation of the same thing. Me repudiating the quote. I always give it a caveat. That it is only my point of view and that it may well be different for others. Stop “trying” to be a good sub…because that’s focusing… Continue reading Out of Focus

A Symbiosis of Love

And again there are no words. Words exist that can, used by a poet, achieve a dim monochrome of the body’s love, but beyond that they fail clumsily. My love flowed out to her, hers back to me. Mine stroked and soothed. Hers caressed. The distance – and the difference – between us dwindled and… Continue reading A Symbiosis of Love

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The Abrogation of Self

The above picture represents how many dominants see themselves. As lord of the jungle. proud master of all they survey they reign supreme over the adoring subbies they command. Those subbies need nothing more than the knowledge that they are content to be nothing more than willing and grateful servants knowing this all they need… Continue reading The Abrogation of Self

A Good Sub

I have a dilemma. I don’t quite know how to find a solution to it either. You see, the wonderful and amazing woman in my life, my precious partner and submissive. Well, she doesn’t think she is a good sub. Hard to believe I know, but there it is. I asked her point blank. Are… Continue reading A Good Sub

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The Experiment

Today Lillith and I are starting something new. Something that I am calling The Experiment. I am not going to spell it all out for you dear reader but I will give you some highlights. We have created some shared online documents that we will use to chart and modify our explorations in dominance and… Continue reading The Experiment