The above picture represents how many dominants see themselves. As lord of the jungle. proud master of all they survey they reign supreme over the adoring subbies they command. Those subbies need nothing more than the knowledge that they are content to be nothing more than willing and grateful servants knowing this all they need and all they will ever need. Nothing more than that they make their dom happy.… Read More »The Abrogation of Self
I have a dilemma. I don’t quite know how to find a solution to it either. You see, the wonderful and amazing woman in my life, my precious partner and submissive. Well, she doesn’t think she is a good sub. Hard to believe I know, but there it is. I asked her point blank. Are you a good sub? Her: Fine Me: Are you a good sub? Her: Not too… Read More »A Good Sub
Today Lillith and I are starting something new. Something that I am calling The Experiment. I am not going to spell it all out for you dear reader but I will give you some highlights. We have created some shared online documents that we will use to chart and modify our explorations in dominance and submission. They will be a way for us to communicate our desires and needs for… Read More »The Experiment
Things have been building up lately, for the both of us I think. It has been a while since we have been together. It is becoming intense. I often see the sub side of Twitter talking about how much they need to submit. Much less frequently do I see the other side of the slash talking about what they need. With things as they are right now I don’t know… Read More »Dance on a Volcano
We have never shared a bath together. I am pretty sure that she isn’t the biggest fan of baths. I find them to be ok, unless they are shared. I want to spend a day full of kink moments with marks and bruises, welts and love. A day where we take our time exploring each other, exploring our roles and desires until we collapse into a tired sweaty mess. Then… Read More »Existentialism means that no one else can take a bath for you.
The delicate balance of mentoring someone is not creating them in your own image, but giving them the opportunity to create themselves. Steven Spielberg There is a delicate balance that needs to be maintained when miles, and time and circumstances keep you and your partner in filth apart. We both work hard at finding just the right spot where we can keep local life and our relationship where it works.… Read More »Long Distance D/S is Not a Balance Sheet
On December the 9th 2019 I met Lillith in person for the first time. I met her at the airport and we took a bus to the place that would become known as “A Bed and No Breakfast” . We had quite a time finding the place and once we did, there was no one there to tell us which room was ours. We phoned the number that came with… Read More »A Year Ago I would have Never Pictured My Life The Way It Is Today
We will be together again soon. We will be able to touch, and laugh and yes, fuck and be kinky. Maybe even do some things that you might find deeply perverse. To affirm what we are to each other. These are difficult times and LDR is hard during the best of times. But we have worked hard in spite these things and in spite of my mistakes. She has been… Read More »Six Days and Seven Nights
Love and d/s
Kneeling A profound act of devotion The beginning of submission The surest way to get my attention We see the pictures everywhere don’t we? Almost always in black and white. He is wearing a suit and of course he has no head. She is naked except for maybe a collar and a leash and on her knees. It is the stereotypical image of d/s and there is nothing wrong with… Read More »Take a Knee
