I was @domsigns on Twitter and for a brief time I was @uncertainsigns and that account still exists because I don’t want to forget all the history and connections that account brought me.
I recently asked Lillith if she would like it if I brushed her hair. She demurred and when I asked why she said that she didn’t think that she would like it. Now I hope one day to at least get her to let me try. But obviously if she doesn’t want to, she doesn’t have to. What I would like is to have her shave me. And I would… Read More »A Close Shave
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #131? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! Communion Wedding night orgy: new, filthy traditions Body Love:… Read More »Elust 130
Some of you may have noticed that we have a new addition to the household. He is a much adored little guy and while I have never been as cute as he is I figured I could be cute by association. So say hello to Hudson and leave him a comment. I am sure he would appreciate it. As always the concept, composition and capture of the photograph are all… Read More »It’s a Dogs Life
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I recently complained that there was no representation of my body type in the images used to portray BDSM. You know what those pictures typically look like. A fit man in a suit or shirtless with a naked slim woman on her knees. And it is almost always in black and white. I am not a fan, sure, kink can be art, but for me these portrayals remove the grittiness… Read More »Eye of the Beholder
I have read a lot of posts about respect recently and many of them have rubbed me the wrong way and I haven’t been quite sure why until I thought about writing on the topic. There seem to be two main schools of thought. (Not exclusively two before some smartass makes a comment) A. That respect is something we should all have for each other right from the start. B.… Read More »Find out what it means to me
Back in the 80’s and 90’s I did concert sound for many artists. Some I knew and some I had heard before and some I saw for the first time on the road. Bonnie Raitt I listened to her album Nick of Time many many times. I was really happy to find out that she would be playing at a festival I was working at in support of her new… Read More »Something to talk about
I want her to succeed. Always. When set a task, when being punished, when making changes to make her life better. Why would I ever want anything else. I want her strong, sure and confident. And to me that also means successful. After all, I can spank her, use her and fuck her whenever I want. The point of tasks is to help her. Help her with her submission. Help… Read More »Success
I have always striven to be a good man. I have often failed. That doesn’t stop me from trying again and again in the hope that this time, I might finally get it right. How I define being a good man has changed over the many years of my live and has been influenced by both those I love and respect and those that I do not. Mostly what my… Read More »Good Enough
She has become my life, my home. Home is a place to feel safe and loved and understood and she brings all that to me. I start each day with her and I send her to bed each night. Once I go to bed I leave a recording for her so that she has a message from me when she gets up each morning. By the time I wake up… Read More »Welcome Home My Love
