I was @domsigns on Twitter and for a brief time I was @uncertainsigns and that account still exists because I don’t want to forget all the history and connections that account brought me.
I want to start by stating clearly that I am a cis, het, white, old male. I do not lay claim to pride, I only do my best to support those that need it. We live in interesting and difficult times. Everything has changed. Let’s face it the big obvious place where we can point to where it all went wrong, The end of the beginning and the beginning of… Read More »The Times They are a Changing
“There will come a time when you believe everything is finished; that will be the beginning.” – Louis L’Amour I have seen this quote before and it tickled my brain because I thought it reminded me of something and eventually I figured it out. It is the lyrics from “Closing Time by Semisonic” that sparked that connection in my brain. Closing timeEvery new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.… Read More »Closing Time
[showhide type=”Content Warning]D/s, The appearance of non consensual use, objectification[/showhide] Since the last time we were together we have been making a lot of plans for the next time we are together. We have a list and not just because she loves lists. But so we can plan the best use of our time together. I have a plan that isn’t on the list, well, at least not yet. I… Read More »Toy with Her
Much of life is full of symbols. Some are required for everyday life. They are a shorthand to communicate information without using words and are often meant to be understood no matter what language you speak. I would say from my point of view that the symbols on clothing fail miserably at this. We use these glyphs in many other parts of our lives as well. To represent aspects of… Read More »A symbol of freedom
[showhide type=”Content Warning]Shaving, Razor, Mention of Blood and D/s[/showhide] I mentioned on Twitter the other day that I was going to learn a new skill. I had a few people ask me what I was going to be learning. I didn’t share that information, but I will now. Recently I wrote a post for Kink of the Week – Grooming called A Close Shave where I talked about shaving Lillith… Read More »cut-throat
I am a patient man. This isn’t just my opinion. I have been told this many times over the years. It has served me well and I work hard to cultivate it. When I do it right it helps me. It keeps me calm under pressure and mostly stops me from letting anger drive my decisions. Mostly the people in my life like it too. Except, when they don’t. Sometimes… Read More »Patience
I have learned a lot over the last 18 months. Some of it bad, some of it good. All of it useful. Some of what I have I have learned has show me my terrible decisions and what I need to do to avoid repeating them. Some of it has to do with other people. The thing I am going to talk about here is something that I wasn’t sure… Read More »Not an option
Recently I wrote a story that explored the DDlg kink and I made a mistake. I did not adequately label the piece as a work of fiction, also I did not specify the ages of the participants nor their actual relationship to each other. This was a mistake on my part and I would like to unreservedly apologize for that. I have password protected the post and removed it from… Read More »Owning up
Over the weekend I asked Lillith to think about our D/s and her submission and that I was going to do the same and so today I asked her what her thoughts were and among those thoughts was a sentence that stuck out for me. “A thought I had was that D/s is our common denominator.” ~Lillith And of course as many of her words do that got me thinking.… Read More »Fractional D/s
The Sinful Sunday prompt this week is the letter I, I wondered what I could do for a picture. Now I am not very good at taking pictures and I thought of all kinds of words that start with the letter I, but nothing that I could take a picture of myself. I really wanted to do this one by myself. Sure, I live with one of the most talented… Read More »I Penis
