I was @domsigns on Twitter and for a brief time I was @uncertainsigns and that account still exists because I don’t want to forget all the history and connections that account brought me.
Yep, I have a stuffie. He was a gift from Lillith and he lives on my desk and every time I look at him I am reminded of her and that always makes me smile. Stuffies exist for a reason, often as children the world is big and scary and we want something to cling to. As we age we are taught, and often mocked that we should not need… Read More »Manfred Marmoset
Violet Fawkes is a brilliant blogger and a wonderful person and also runs some amazing memes. The one I am taking part in here is LIFE (Lingerie Is For Everyone) and I have taken part in the past. Here is the thing. I don’t wear lingerie and while my partner Lillith does those are not my pictures to share. I am not a great fan of pictures of me. I… Read More »Behind Bars
I will, of course, start with the obvious things. I don’t play with anyone without a safe word. Those are my rules, you can have different rules and someone else to play with. No, a safeword won’t keep you safe from someone who won’t respect your limits. Just like seatbelts won’t keep you safe from a drunk driver, but you still wear them. It is just safer. And not just… Read More »To Be on the Safe Side
You all love twisting the knife into one another. Benoit Blanc: Knives Out
I love delivering a good flogging. Now don’t get me wrong I love all kinds of impact play. But flogging has a special appeal to me. The very first piece of kink kit I ever bought was a flogger. It was made to order by a friend of mine in California. It is long and heavy and feels like an extension of my arm when I hold it. It is… Read More »Moose Hide
Even when you really don’t go anywhere and spend all your time working from home, eventually you have to do the laundry. I know that Lillith and Molly despair at my laundry hanging skills.
Love takes many forms, some are more unconventional than others. Some have become more conventional over my lifetime. When I was young the open show of love between same sex couple was unthinkable for most people. The same is true of interracial relationships. Not that either of these examples still don’t have a long way to go. For all of its many flaws 50 Shades of Grey brought BDSM and… Read More »The Shape of Love
This started off to be a different post. But I abandoned that for the time being because it needs more thought and communication, or maybe we need to just do it first and then that post can be written. I do know that I can write this post here and now. There are lots of words written about how a sub should care for her Dom but I don’t think… Read More »My Indulgence
Lillith wrote a post about her orgasms. That got me thinking about my orgasms. So like, I think, most everyone else I prefer orgasms with my partner. Not that I don’t have them on my own. The current situation means that they are always on my own. That doesn’t mean that we don’t sext or have phone sex but that isn’t exactly the same. Now that I am with Lillith… Read More »The Big O
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