There were plans that were interrupted by life. That happens, even when we don’t want it to, but that is just how the cookie crumbles sometimes. So this was not supposed to be a post, this was to be a lived lesson for the both of us. I, was going to be strict. She likes it when I am strict. When I give her the look that says “Watch your… Read More »Strictly Come Domming
She has left, not forever, just for now. It was, as it always is, an amazing visit. Full of love and laughter and d/s and sex. And more. The more is a topic for another post. This post is about how I have felt since she left. LDR is always difficult, being apart for so long, local life getting in the way. It is extra hard after the high of… Read More »Departure Drop
The course of true love never did run smooth William Shakespeare In life, love and d/s there are always hiccups. Not every thing can go to plan every single time. In other words, if you think you know what is going on , that is the moment right before you screw it up. Let me give some context before we get to the meat of the matter. Lillith has been… Read More »Taking Control
Hi my little slut. Welcome to another Mean Day™. As I always I try to be a creative as I can in giving you your instructions for Mean Day™ and I decided my blog was a way to share that I haven’t used yet. So here are the rules. All usual rules apply. Asking permission to pee. Food rules. Cleaning rule. Yoga rule and so on. You should be sure… Read More »Mean Day™ 11/5/21
I have a playlist that I listen to, mostly Friday to Saturday. It isn’t a long playlist, but it spans decades and genres of music. I am listening to it now as I write. Music helps me write. It helps with many things. Right now it is helping with waiting. I am a patient man, I have waited a long time to see her again. Soonish the waiting will be… Read More »Waiting for my ship to come in
She thinks I’m crazy. She might be right but I hope it is a good kind of crazy. She was hoping for so chips tonight and it didn’t happen. I offered to get her some and sent her a link that listed the odd sorts of flavors you can get in the UK. I got a message back listing the ones she would like. I told her that I would… Read More »All That and A Bag Of Chips
Things have been building up lately, for the both of us I think. It has been a while since we have been together. It is becoming intense. I often see the sub side of Twitter talking about how much they need to submit. Much less frequently do I see the other side of the slash talking about what they need. With things as they are right now I don’t know… Read More »Dance on a Volcano
I am an ardent atheist and that is extremely unlikely to change. I would have until recently called myself a humanist, but then people have revealed themselves to be pretty terrible. So I don’t know where that leaves me. I can say there are are a small and select group of people who have shown that they aren’t terrible, but after the last few years I have become gun shy… Read More »High Days and Holidays
The delicate balance of mentoring someone is not creating them in your own image, but giving them the opportunity to create themselves. Steven Spielberg There is a delicate balance that needs to be maintained when miles, and time and circumstances keep you and your partner in filth apart. We both work hard at finding just the right spot where we can keep local life and our relationship where it works.… Read More »Long Distance D/S is Not a Balance Sheet
We will be together again soon. We will be able to touch, and laugh and yes, fuck and be kinky. Maybe even do some things that you might find deeply perverse. To affirm what we are to each other. These are difficult times and LDR is hard during the best of times. But we have worked hard in spite these things and in spite of my mistakes. She has been… Read More »Six Days and Seven Nights
