I think I am having a bit of relationship drop. We recently had ten days of bliss. Non stop time together and it was amazing. Unlike both of our other visits we had more time. Time to do ordinary life things with each other. Cooking, cleaning, reading, watching movies, the stuff of everyday life. This is what life is like in an LDR. Long periods of separation with (up until… Read More »Just a Drop in the Ocean
Dominants tend to be the “Alpha Male”, and that is why “Dom” is always spelled with a capital, while “sub” is always lowercase. People love rules. They love to impose rules on everything. That isn’t always a bad thing because without rules humans tend to make things go very wrong. But like so many thing people get pedantic and want there to be rules when none are really needed and… Read More »One Title to Rule Them All
This prompt will no doubt inspire many thoughts about what freedom is and what it means to them. And whether it can be taken away or not. For me freedom is an illusion. We are not truly free, we cannot do whatever we want regardless of the impact on other people. Otherwise society couldn’t function as we would all be acting solely based on our own self interest. The same… Read More »Freedom is just another word for nothing left to Lose
One of the things on the list for our last visit was a day of service. This was something new for both of us, well certainly for me at least, I will need to check with Lillith to be sure. As we explore our D/s we are trying different facets on for size to see what fits us. Assuming that we are on the same page, even for things we… Read More »Terms of Service
I was born and indoctrinated a Roman Catholic. As you may of may not know it is a religion based on shame and guilt. It was baked into my life at an early age. Follow all the rules or go to hell. This wasn’t just at church but practiced at home too. Church rules were hammered home every Sunday, at Mass and at Sunday School. Go to church every Sunday… Read More »Guilty as Charged
The latest #NoTrueWay prompt is the question “Who do you belong to?” You might think that because Lillith and I are in a D/s relationship that would be easy to answer, right? Obviously she belongs to me… but it isn’t that simple. She is my sub, my girlfriend, my partner and I am her Dom, her boyfriend and her partner. We belong, as much as anyone can to each other.… Read More »I belong to you, you belong to me.
The place between Heaven and Hell for those that believe such things. I am not a believer, but I am currently inhabiting limbo. Lillith and I have just spent 10 glorious days together and I am now at the airport waiting for my flight. I could regale you with all of the wonderful things we did together and I am sure that over the coming months i will. We did… Read More »Limbo
What makes a man who he is? Is it the worst things he has ever done? Or the best things he wants to be⁸? These thoughts weigh on my mind every day. I have not yet found any answer that feels right and maybe I never will. Maybe it is impossible for me to determine and it must be decided by those I have impacted along the way. I do… Read More »What Makes a Man
We are going to see each other again on Monday. We met in Paris in March and were already discussing when we would meet again. Then things changed and those plans were put on hold. I know for many it has been much longer since they have seen or will get to see their person and that just sucks and so I try not to be very public about our… Read More »The List
The rest of the saying goes; is fear itself. But my version is. All we have to fear, is ourselves. “Right on the edge of fear was where trust could grow.”― Cherise Sinclair My life has been full of fear. Fear that I would be beaten, at home, at school. Fear that I am not good enough. Fear that the people I love will leave me. Even at my most… Read More »All We Have to Fear
