For this edition of #NTW the quote is: For the Dominant: Create a sense of fear I am sure that there are people who get off on fear, from both sides of the slash. I am not one of them. If I caused my partner to fear for their mental or physical safety I would be devastated. I attended a session on fear play at kinkfest a few years ago… Read More »Something about fear and d/s
She was getting dressed to go to work while I made the coffee. As always I had to approve the panties she wore each day. I called her to come from the bedroom to get her coffee. She walked into the kitchen in just her top and her panties. “Are these alright Sir?” She spun in place to show me the black lace top panties with a bow. I frown,… Read More »You’re Not Fully Dressed
Now go, cat, go… Today’s never have I ever was going to be very different, but I am too raw from today’s events to do that. So I am going to go another way. An actual sexual NHIE. Not one that I think can be managed right now but I have decided that it counts if it is something that I hope to do someday. I want to fuck Lillith… Read More »Well, it’s one for the money, Two for the show, Three to get ready
We grow old because we stop playing. Lillith and I were talking the other night about her new November meme, Never Have I Ever and I told her that I was at a disadvantage simply because I am old and have done a lot of things that maybe most other people had not. And the things I haven’t done yet that were sexual things would be very tough because she… Read More »We don’t stop playing because we grow old
Consent is a tricky thing no matter what people say. There have been many attempts to explain consent, mostly in a sexual context. Like the tea analogy. Simple right? You don’t force tea on people, you ask. If they say yes to tea you don’t assume forever they still want tea. If they decide that they don’t want their tea in the middle of drinking it, you don’t make them… Read More »Kink, Consent, and the Whole World.
MALEDOM IS NOT A FETISH While the so called “femdom” is just a sick roleplaying fetish for weak manginas and penis-envious feminists, but Maledom is just the natural and healthy law of human nature, which determines that Male is the Superior sex. Ahh, the plight of the White, Cis, Male, Dom. So desperate for relevance, so fragile of ego, so full of misogyny that all he can do is lash… Read More »The Tears of a Clown
We will be together again soon. We will be able to touch, and laugh and yes, fuck and be kinky. Maybe even do some things that you might find deeply perverse. To affirm what we are to each other. These are difficult times and LDR is hard during the best of times. But we have worked hard in spite these things and in spite of my mistakes. She has been… Read More »Six Days and Seven Nights
Love and d/s
Kneeling A profound act of devotion The beginning of submission The surest way to get my attention We see the pictures everywhere don’t we? Almost always in black and white. He is wearing a suit and of course he has no head. She is naked except for maybe a collar and a leash and on her knees. It is the stereotypical image of d/s and there is nothing wrong with… Read More »Take a Knee
We all worry about this. Are we good enough? Good enough in all the ways we need to be good. Am I a good enough partner? Am I a good enough lover, worker, writer, dominant, submissive? Even when we are feeling at our best and the world is ticking along as planned it can still sneak up on us and trash our day in an instant. Suddenly that feeling of… Read More »Am I good enough?
