Lillith recently wrote a post for KotW I for Ice-Cream on food control. In it she says “I knew it was something Michael was into” and that isn’t exactly correct. I mean I don’t get sexual pleasure from controlling what she eats, just like I don’t get turned on by making sure she drinks enough water everyday. I DO get pleasure from controlling her and making sure she takes care… Read More »Zen And The Art Of Gentle Dominance
My Lillith wrote a post for Kink of the Week about gifts, it is a very good post and you should definitely read it. In her post she muses about whether she has given me a d/s gift and my response when asked that question. The point of this post is about her response to my answer and the nature of gifts from my point of view. The image above… Read More »The Gift of Submission, Yeah Yeah
Yep, I have a stuffie. He was a gift from Lillith and he lives on my desk and every time I look at him I am reminded of her and that always makes me smile. Stuffies exist for a reason, often as children the world is big and scary and we want something to cling to. As we age we are taught, and often mocked that we should not need… Read More »Manfred Marmoset
I love delivering a good flogging. Now don’t get me wrong I love all kinds of impact play. But flogging has a special appeal to me. The very first piece of kink kit I ever bought was a flogger. It was made to order by a friend of mine in California. It is long and heavy and feels like an extension of my arm when I hold it. It is… Read More »Moose Hide
I recently asked Lillith if she would like it if I brushed her hair. She demurred and when I asked why she said that she didn’t think that she would like it. Now I hope one day to at least get her to let me try. But obviously if she doesn’t want to, she doesn’t have to. What I would like is to have her shave me. And I would… Read More »A Close Shave
The lace isn’t old, but the man wearing it is. Now I don’t identify as anything but a cis het male and wearing lace doesn’t do anything for me. I have never asked Lillith if men wearing lace does anything for her. I know that when she wears it definitely does something for me. I took this picture for a couple of reasons but the one that was at the… Read More »Old Lace
I missed the kink of the week prompt for this. I did try, I started writing a story that I though might just squeak in both in timing and in content. But work and the world got in the way and I didn’t finish the story. I will because I think it is a good one but I will take my time with it. But in a way I am… Read More »Honor Bound
Most people know that I love to cook. It brings me great joy. Not just in the act of creating a meal, but it how it is received by the people who consume it. There is a peace and calmness that comes with making a meal. The steps and the and timing of getting it all done so that everything is ready at once makes me focus and in a… Read More »A Feast of Love
