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If you rely completely on protocol, you can become a robot.

If you rely completely on protocol, you can become a robot.

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If you rely completely on protocol, you can become a robot. Margaret Trudeau Almost all humans love protocols not just the d/s crowd. They may not be aware of it, but they spend their whole lives learning and becoming accustomed to them. We are taught them at every step of our lives even if they don’t make any sense at all. You can call them whatever you like, rules, routines,… Read More »If you rely completely on protocol, you can become a robot.

Balance

Long Distance D/S is Not a Balance Sheet

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The delicate balance of mentoring someone is not creating them in your own image, but giving them the opportunity to create themselves. Steven Spielberg There is a delicate balance that needs to be maintained when miles, and time and circumstances keep you and your partner in filth apart. We both work hard at finding just the right spot where we can keep local life and our relationship where it works.… Read More »Long Distance D/S is Not a Balance Sheet

A Year Ago I would have Never Pictured My Life The Way It Is Today

On December the 9th 2019 I met Lillith in person for the first time. I met her at the airport and we took a bus to the place that would become known as “A Bed and No Breakfast” . We had quite a time finding the place and once we did, there was no one there to tell us which room was ours. We phoned the number that came with… Read More »A Year Ago I would have Never Pictured My Life The Way It Is Today

Sub Maintenance

Care and Maintenance of Your Submissive: a Complete Guide

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A sub (or a dom) is not a car. Maintenance spankings are necessary While I understand the concept of the quote and maybe agree with it in principal, I personally feel that it reduces the concept of a d/s relationship to a car repair manual. People aren’t that simple. Once size does not fit all and there most certainly is no true way. There is only the way that works… Read More »Care and Maintenance of Your Submissive: a Complete Guide

Horn of Plenty

Horn of Plenty

It was just Thanksgiving and one of the symbols from back when I was smaller was the Cornucopia. A curved, hollow goat’s horn or similarly shaped receptacle (such as a horn-shaped basket) that is overflowing especially with fruit and vegetables (such as gourds, ears of corn, apples, and grapes) and that is used as a decorative motif emblematic of abundance. — called also horn of plenty. And that is what… Read More »Horn of Plenty

final resting place.

A Final Resting Place

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You spend most of your life having firsts. Kisses, lovers, marriages, children, grandchildren. Eventually though those firsts start to give way to lasts. You hardly notice them. They are not like firsts, they are not marked with celebrations, their are no balloons or candles to blow out when your eyes start to fail or when you can’t hear anymore. There are things that I will never be able to do… Read More »A Final Resting Place

God's eye

The mote in god’s eye

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I don’t believe in god. I doubt that I ever have. While I was raised catholic and even an altar boy none of that made me believe. Experience only confirmed that none of the people at church had any answers that worked for me. I always wanted to believe, but I needed a logical and consistent system for that to work. A god I could understand and the one requirement… Read More »The mote in god’s eye

Body

Body of Evidence

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I have never liked my body. Not any piece of it. Not when I was a child, not when I was a teen, not when I was a man and certainly not now that I am an old man. I am obviously not as unattractive as I think I am. A beautiful woman loves me and she is not the first. But I just don’t see it myself. I have… Read More »Body of Evidence

Must Be The Season Of The Whip

Must Be The Season Of The Whip

When I look out my windowMany sights to seeAnd when I look in my windowSo many different people to beThat it’s strange, so strange You’ve got to pick up every stitchYou’ve got to pick up every stitchYou’ve got to pick up every stitchMmm, must be the season of the whipMust be the season of the whip, yeahMust be the season of the whip When I look over my shoulderWhat do… Read More »Must Be The Season Of The Whip