I have been thinking about us recently. To be completely honest I think about us a lot. I am doing my best to be a better boyfriend and dom and so I am constantly reviewing what we have done, what we will do and what we might do.
Since my brain is fairly broken my thoughts often go to different place that is distant from where I started and this time while thinking about bondage my mind jumped to consent and from there to willing consent.
The thing is that as I have said before these things go both ways for us. While I am the one that restrains her body with cuffs and her mind with my dominance so too I am equally in bondage with her.
Perhaps it is a consequence of my point of view how our love, our sex and our d/s are inextricably connected. I can’t keep those things separate and frankly I don’t want to even if somehow I could. I like how we are connected in all things no matter what. We are partners and lovers and dom and sub and so many more things that we haven’t even discovered yet.
As always it is a learning process and for me a late life process. But it is one that makes me happy and I hope makes us happy and together we will build something that fits us just right.
We are mostly LDR and that makes things far more complicated as we both have a local life that needs to be handled before anything else. But I know that we as a team will make that work.
So find myself a perfectly happy participant in the willing bondage of consent. Enthusiastically willing. I am fairly certain that she is too.
Michael
